I'm one of THEM now

Dec 3, 2007 at 9:19 PM
Hi all.

I generally am known for being one of those people who hates it when couples fall all over themselves to talk about how unbelievably happy they are.

I figured out yesterday that the sole reason for that is because I've never been there before.

So, anyway, I found THAT GUY and I'm all gaga for him. It's sickening (and I love it). I spent 6 hours with my best friend yesterday picking apart the first date and gushing about him.

His name's Michael. He drove 13 hours straight to meet me. It was way worth it. I knew right away that this guy was the guy I'm going to spend my life with.

You'll be hearing more about him very shortly. We both have a rather fast speed of particle flow, so I expect we'll be married within a few months.


  1. Kat Says:


    Don't know if its too late to call back but would love to see you when you're here!!!

  2. Anonymous Says:

    You'll have to forgive my cynism but are you seriouslly thinking you'll be married after only having had 1 date? I mean have you at least had other contact? I can't help but always be doubtful about such fast moving relationships, seen a lot of them break up. Not to mention having suffered a seriously devastatingly soul crushing break up recently w/ someone that I got to know pretty well (or so I thought and he was very convincing in everything he told me about his beliefs and hopes and dreams and all that we had in common) and when we actually got together I just knew I would spend the rest of my life with and was told over and over again that I was the one he wanted to spend the rest of his iife with as well. I am usually an excellent judge of character but unfortunately love truly does make you blind. And lust and fast moving crushes blind people to all sorts of things also. From my personal opinion you seem to be a really nice, down to earth person so if he truly turns out to be a nice and truthful person then more power to you and I wish happiness for you both, but seeing as there are a lot of men or maybe I should say boys( b/c I don't believe a real man would be a liar and cheat) out there that will tell you just about anything you want to hear if only to justify anything for their own agenda. I say enjoy the bliss but keep your eyes open b/c our hearts tend to rule our heads and make exceptions and excuses for all sorts of out-ethics behavior just for fear of losing the bliss.

  3. Anonymous Says:

    I wanted to add that I am not a bitch, really I've just been burned really, really bad. I will check back to see your progress w/ your new man and really if it works out for you and you give a ringing endorsement (based on quality of candidates) for AE I might be interested in it. I am too weary to attempt it now unless I know from someone that it actually works.

  4. Mikey Says:

    Love is GRAND! Enjoy!

  5. desi Says:

    Hey there anonymous,

    First let me say that whoever you're talking about who busted your heart open deserves to be spanked hard and NOT like it.

    Anyway, I didn't find him on A-E - I REALLY don't like that site. I found him at the place Kat recommended. A hell of a lot of people I know found someone through the place Kat recommended (look back through the comments and you'll see).

    Here's how to do this right:

    1. Get through your basics.

    2. Make sure you're scrubbed clean ethics-wise. Do it until you are well past the point where you CAN pull in the REAL one. What I recommend, because I did it, is O/Ws, Conditions, RPEC Exchange and Conditions by Dynamics, and anything else you want to do.

    Stop mocking up negatives, including putting counter postulates into other people's happy 2Ds.

    3. Join that dating site I mentioned before, the one that is responsible for 5 happy couples in LTRs or married that I personally know.

    Best of luck in your journey.

  6. Lerey Says:

    I am so happy for you! I know that if you are this confident about him, it will work out beautifully!